feat: Add generic reconciler helper for resource management

[drivebyer]

Introduce a reusable reconciler utility to handle common resource lifecycle operations with owner reference management.

Description

part of #1003

Type of change

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)

Checklist

• Tests have been added/modified and all tests pass.
• Functionality/bugs have been confirmed to be unchanged or fixed.
• I have performed a self-review of my own code.
• Documentation has been updated or added where necessary.

Additional Context