feat: add recreateStatefulSetOnUpdateInvalid helm chart value

[drivebyer]

Description

Fixes #1118

Type of change

• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)

Checklist

• Tests have been added/modified and all tests pass.
• Functionality/bugs have been confirmed to be unchanged or fixed.
• I have performed a self-review of my own code.
• Documentation has been updated or added where necessary.

Additional Context

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 44.03%. Comparing base (d121d86) to head (8a02609).
Report is 132 commits behind head on master.

Additional details and impacted files

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##           master    #1127      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   35.20%   44.03%   +8.83%     
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  Files          19       21       +2     
  Lines        3213     3431     +218     
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+ Hits         1131     1511     +380     
+ Misses       2015     1832     -183     
- Partials       67       88      +21     

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